Well I know a different question from a person whom you won't expect one like this?
I came up with this question because for a few days I have been going through things or rather one of my friend is going through this amazing life puzzle of balancing Career and Relationships!
Her profession, hahahaha! Good question - she an editor! So that's like my future too, ummmm I don't know! Anyways she has been in such an amazing roller coaster ride in the past couple of months that I just can't believe it! She actually decided to give up and decide not to marry... But why not I am not surprised at all... Is marring the only option left when you turn say 24 or 30 years old?
If your profession is so that you have to out with people of your same profession late nights while your husband or boyfriend is not comfortable! If I have to stay out with the production people till 2:30 am! Then, obviously, I have to still fight with my parents - I can understand that they care, but so what? I mean that's my work & I love doing it! I know its just for the sake of caring, but don't you think that parents at some time of life should leave their child alone to fly! I mean if my parents have a problem then suddenly the third person who comes into my life will definitely have a problem, but then should I get married? Should I get married to that person who is from the same profession? Then comes the belief that from my profession - marriages are not successful - and unfortunately it is true!
But why do we get married? A very basic question which I think I need answer at the right time! So do help me in that...
I think marriages are for two things:
1) Getting a company for the whole life after your parents pass away!
2) Having sex and producing Kids, and increasing the population of every country.
Agreed with both the reasons! But do we have any reason for coming into this world?
I mean there are so many things to do in life! Who wants to stay in this world and make the place crowded. I don't want to stay alive more than 65 - max 70 years!
Kyun boz bana hain re logon pe!
Oh having sex is a completely different area...
Well at the age of 30 I guess I'll be earning atleast Rs. 25,000...
I think I can handle myself in that much!
Well and the aim is that produce babies - its better I adopt one, AND DEFINITELY A GIRL!
The life is so much better! Population bhi nahi badhega?
What sounds better you tell -
a) kya aapki ladki ki shadi nahi hui?
OR
b) kya aapki ladki ka divorse hua hain aur voh abhi gharpe hain?
Instead don't get married na!! Mast raho life ENJOY karo...
These questions because these are the consequences of not marrying anyone - whether a girl or a boy!
Think... This was thought by guys earlier but now it is a thought which is coming into the minds of girls...
IS IT OK? Or is it the guys rated first or the need of the society?
Without a Girl, dam it no one in this world would be there. If the women decides to abort no one can stop her!
So,
MORAL OF THE STORY IS -
MARRY THE ONE WHOM YOU LOVE AND WHO LOVES YOU EQUALLY, HAS TRUST COMPLETELY ON YOU - BLIND FAITH!
THERE ARE 1 CRORE REASONS IN THIS WORLD TO WORK FOR, AND MARRIAGE might RUIN THAT WORK AND YOUR DREAM.... Coming UNDER THE PRESSURE OF YOUR PARTNER...
This Question is in my mind because I am in LOVE but I am not expecting a YES from him and I have found a wonderful option to stay alive and HAPPY as well, HE BEING IN MY HEART ALWAYS....
Think BEFORE TAKING ANY STEP IN YOUR LIFE!
IT SHOULD BE PROFITABLE FOR YOU AS WELL AS FAMILY & FRIENDS AROUND YOU...
Love you ALL...
Take care!
Saturday, May 9, 2009
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4 comments:
Gosh!
U think a lot.
I would say, marriage is not the only reason to live for. But love makes u feel like this is ONE GR8 THING worth living for.
u don't need to get married to have sex and get babies. Marriage is about the companionship dear.
Marriage doesn't ruin anything. Its just like if u gain something, u must pay for it. I am okie with the changes in my preferences happening due to my upcoming wedding.
One more thing, friendship is not as gr8 as u feel. It cannot replace love. Ur partner and ur parents r d only once who get affected by ur decisions. And they r the only once who really care. Frenz feel sorry, and THATS IT.
I completely agree with you, you can't see your friends and your love on the same postion!
I guess this question came up in my life because there are things which are happening around me which are going completely against the thought of marriage...
I am thinking a lot now a days only because of that reason.. Nothing else!
One more reason of thinking of such a question is that as you completely - what love is for me? You know that I am in love and I love him so much!!! I guess I am just not ready to take such a step in my life or this might be just the perfect step for me of not getting married and being equally successful and having a good life!
What say?
U know wat, I said all those things just to make u feel optimistic. In fact, I m facing the same question in my life - 'Is marriage the only reason we live for?'
Go thru my blog if u r ready to taste some pessimism! :) :|
Optimism !
I am totally optimistic dear...
I did read your blog I sent a comment too...
Read it !!!
Hmmmm....
:-)
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