WHAT If.....????

WHAT IF.... ???

A very good question to ask yourself when you look at something, some one or anything which you thought you would love to have it for yourself. Right ?

Well this one question came to my mind a few days ago! I don't know how, I was just walking down in my college corridor and this question just popped in just like a pop up window of a person to whom you really don't want to chat with but he/she just doesn't want to stop the conversation!
Hehehehehe... Well that is how exactly I felt because I didn't want that thought to proceed...

But then 'jyo hona hain voh hota hain!' So that thought just seeded in my brain & then just grew as a long story, so thought of asking myself and you all what if...???

I have friends who most of them are Guys, I know I know You all must have come to know about it by now..
But then there was a conversation which I kind off overheard that day itself where I was just walking past the footpath of my road, where a middle aged couple was talking & having a 'tu tu mai main' types of small zagda! I mean I guess they were having a talk on a t-shirt which the Husband was wearing, where the Wife had seen it for the first time.. SURPRISING, was that for me ! The wife said that is it from any friend of yours whose a female? That is why you did not tell me? The husband said ya, why to tell.. I mean usse kya hoga? Then the Wife said that will you like if I have friend who is a male and giving me gifts which I don't tell you? The Husband challenged his Wife that make a friend who is a male with whom you can share anything!
Haaaaaannnnnn.............. I mean from where it went where??
The Wife did not say anything, obviously why and how is she going to reply to her husband,
AT THE END OF DAY INDIA IS STILL A MALE ORIENTED SOCIETY !!! SICK....
Why can't we just change these things? Why dont we get this in Public... Why should the Girls/Ladies sacrifice more? Why?? I mean I agree even Guys/ Gents do sacrifices but why are ours, Ladie/Girls sacrifices taken just like that why are we not able to put our steps forward and fight for it? Is it because we are physically more week than Gents/ Guys.. Remember Gals/ Ladies we are mentally strong which is way more important that Physical strongness..

Ya now I know you all might think No We won't say or put any restictions on my Wife/Girlfriend to meet anyone... Ask yourself, Be truthful to yourself.. And then ANSWER TO YOURSELF !!!
Realise That at the end of the DAY your Wife/Girlfriend is a HUMAN BEING and she needs to be Not Only with her FRIEND who are Ladies But, WHY not Friends who are of the opposite Sex?

Then I thought what about me when I get married? Hahahahahaha... I have like 90% of friends who are guys... How am I going to stay alive, without my Friends...???? Noways !!!
You have to trust and have faith on your PARTNER so much that you, I mean should have no problem of her/ him meeting anyone from this world ! It should be like CLEAN & CLEAR...
Why doubts and all...... Why so uncomfortability? I mean this a thing which should be thought of...

Then I was like WHAT IF... ??? She makes a friend who is male and kinds of manages to share everything, her feelings her thoughts then....!!! So cool, I mean i'll be so happy... But she should ofcourse know where she should scratch a straight line in this friendship and the same goes to the Husband!
There are things which she must be comfortable in sharing with some other Male friend of hers while the same thing with Husband! But it shouldn't be made so often that A fight can occur and tend to just blast the whole relatioonship...

Don't RESTRICT YOURSELF NOR YOUR PARTNER FROM INTERACTING WITH ANYONE ! AND TAKING ANY KIND OF STEP TOWARDS MAKING HER/HIS LIFE MORE INTERSETING AND LIVELY ! She/ Him have a full freedom to choose from so many people, to talk to whom and whom not to!

LIVE LIFE THE WAY YOU WANT AND NOT HOW OTHERS WANT....
So WHAT IF...... Others say rott things, which you know they are NOT TRUE !!! And people are here to TALK, But then don't give others a talk about yourself that it ruins your life & others too.... who are your near and dear one's & who understand you !